Boundaries, are you good at keeping yours? I feel lately as if my world has rocked from “attacks” on my boundaries and I find myself evaluating what is real TO ME and what the world expects of me.
As an artist, it’s good to have no boundaries in a creative sense, like children, but as soon as you step out of that zone, a whole other world comes at ya.
What was ok yesterday might not work today. I find myself living in a somewhat fluid perception juggling the two worlds, the one of my sacred pursuit of art making, and the world of contraries where people constantly want something from me.
It would be easy to be totally ungrounded and live in la-la land, but that’s avoidance. I have learned that my time is precious and so am I.
Space cadets need not approach….
I can choose what is ok for me, but there is always the guilt factor lurking in the background (along with the inner critic. They are having a party.)
If you speak your truth (without cringing) the world might turn ugly around you. I’ve had some experiences lately so I’m reviewing what is ok and what isn’t.
People don’t like it when you stand in your power.
It’s the world according to them, or no world. I’m just a convenience at that point.
The more I speak up, the easier it gets. I highly recommend it since it makes YOUR world right, and you know how much you can give without guilt. We are trained as children to come second to everyone and everything else, especially women are raised that way,
I might turn out like the comic character Maxine, haha.
Some would say she has no filters. Neither do kids, so why not be more like them while including some kindness in the forthright speech? Kindness is free, and it might soften the blow of your truth, BUT some only understand the punch of a two-by-four to the head.
I don’t like to hurt people’s feelings, but I certainly don’t want my own feelings hurt either even if the world thinks it’s ok to step on them.
Anyhow, I will now retreat to my studio and behave like a child again. A child with both feet on the ground and head in the clouds.
I’m learning about boundaries and I’m getting better at shoring them up every day, yay!
Have a great creative weekend.
P.S. Check out my etsy shop EARTH AND FAERY. Lots of new artsy things in there.